When Love and Space Collide

Being in a harmonious relationship feel great to every couple. At some point, however, one or both parties becomes indifferent. Any factor can cause this sudden shift in emotion from total bliss to uncertainty, but sometimes the other party is clueless about their partner's feelings. This is where SPACE comes in. Usually, both parties could use some space and time to work out their feelings. Time is of the essence when things are taking the wrong turn in regards to relationship. If your partner says that he/she needs space, give it to him/her by all means. It does make a difference if you do so.

It is a natuaral reaction to cling to someone that wants you to leave them alone. You spent so much time together that you will feel lonely and vulnerable without that someone's presence. Think again. this might seriously harm your relationship. Remember; if a person tries to pull away, it means the other is being to needy. Conversely, if a person is pushing away, his/her partner will try hard to insert into his/her life even more.

The important thing for couples to remember is that they fell in love with an individual, not someone they intended to mold. Keeping parts of your life strictly yours is essential to a healthy relationship, especially if you want it to last. Don’t give up everything that you like doing, because that builds resentment. However, don’t be selfish. Relationships need breathing room, but not too much either. Life, in all areas, is a balancing act. Being mindful of this fact will go a long way in ensuring a happy, successful relationship and life with that special person.